There’s always been an innate desire within me to achieve more. It’s a blended mix of how I grew up, an athletic mindset, cultural influence and an innate knowing of what I’m capable of.
What I’ve been able to recognize more and more of the years is the difference between wanting more for ego’s sake and wanting more from a place of abundance. There’s a very big difference between the two intentions, and the universe listens loud and clearly.
The Ego’s Desire:
When our desires stem from the ego, they often arise out of comparison or feelings of inadequacy. Here are some key characteristics of this mindset:
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Validation Seeking: People may pursue material possessions or social status as a means to validate their self-worth.
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Endless Cycle: This approach can lead to an ongoing cycle of wanting that leaves us feeling unfulfilled. No matter how much we acquire, it rarely satisfies the deeper need for acceptance and self-esteem.
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Comparison Trap: Living in comparison with others can create feelings of jealousy and dissatisfaction, making it difficult to appreciate what we have.
Creating from Abundance:
Conversely, when we create from a place of abundance, our motivations shift significantly:
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Internal Worthiness: This mindset is rooted in an internal sense of worthiness and gratitude. We recognize that we are enough just as we are.
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Collective Potential: Creating from abundance acknowledges that there is enough for everyone. It fosters collaboration rather than competition.
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Fulfillment Through Contribution: When we focus on creating value for ourselves and others, fulfillment comes naturally as a byproduct of our endeavors.
Why This Matters
Understanding these differences can help guide us toward healthier motivations that enhance our lives rather than detract from them. By shifting focus from ego-driven desires to an abundance mindset, we open ourselves up to greater creativity, joy, and connection with others.
Creating the ‘Shift’
Living beyond limitations requires a fundamental shift in our beliefs about what is possible. Often, we cap ourselves with self-imposed restrictions, rooted in fear and doubt. These limitations can stem from societal norms, past experiences, or negative self-talk that convinces us we are not capable of achieving more. By recognizing these beliefs as barriers rather than truths, we open the door to a limitless existence.
The difference between wanting more from ego and creating more from abundance lies in our motivations. When desires arise from the ego, they often stem from a place of comparison or inadequacy — seeking validation through material possessions or status. This mindset can lead to an endless cycle of wanting without fulfillment.
On the other hand, creating from abundance comes from an internal sense of worthiness and gratitude. It recognizes that there is enough for everyone and that our potential is not limited by external circumstances but rather by our mindset.
Embracing an abundance mentality empowers us to pursue our passions and dreams without fear of scarcity. By shifting focus away from ego-driven desires toward a belief in limitless possibilities, we can truly begin to live beyond our perceived limitations.
Action Item
This week, go HUGE! Make a list of ten goals that you’d only ever dream of. Feel into that space — what you would say, how you would dress, what you talk like, the people you’d surround yourself with — and become it.
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High performance coaching is a transformative approach that helps individuals and teams unlock their true potential. It goes beyond traditional coaching methods by delving deep into the authentic self, fostering meaningful connections, and cultivating a mindset of excellence.
At the heart of high performance coaching is the belief that each person possesses an innate capacity for greatness. The role of the coach is to guide clients in removing the barriers that prevent them from realizing this potential. Through a process of self-discovery, goal-setting, and accountability, clients are empowered to achieve remarkable results in both their personal and professional lives.
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